5 Things to Consider When Choosing a Partner, This Is Important!

Choosing a partner is not as easy as choosing clothes or food. Because your partner will accompany you for the rest of your life. 

Just imagine, when you are on a trip out of town far away and it takes hours. Meanwhile, your walking partner is sleeping and it's not fun to walk.

That alone puts me in a bad mood. Especially a partner who will accompany you for the rest of your life. 

Therefore, when choosing a partner, these five things should be your consideration so that you are observant in choosing a quality partner. Anything? Come on, see the discussion.

 

5 Things to Consider When Choosing a Partner, This Is Important!

1. His attitude and character

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There is no perfect human on this earth. But, choose a human who can control his attitude and character. Even though there is a bad attitude, don't let it become something that continues to be a problem for you. Open your eyes wide while still dating.

Don't just because of your good looks, you then put aside your attitude and character. Because even though he is physically attractive, if his character is arrogant, angry, a hitman, then you will also realize in the end that he is not as good as you think.

2. The way he works

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It's not just about what you do and how much you earn. As long as he works lawfully and positively it's not a problem. What you have to judge is how does it work? Is he responsible for his work? Because maybe at this time he was still an ordinary employee.

However, if he has a diligent, honest, disciplined attitude in his work, then one day he can be promoted. So, don't just look at what he has right now. The way he works will determine whether he is rich or poor in his future. Are you working diligently? Or is it the other way around?

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3. Ethnicity, culture, and beliefs

The next thing that is no less important is ethnicity, culture, and belief. Instead of having to marry someone who has these three things in common. But the common thread is whether or not you can accept the difference between these three things. For example, you are of Chinese descent, but have a Toraja Tribe partner.

Can you not accept the differences in culture and way of life from your partner? While still dating maybe everything is possible. But after marriage, the real conflict will occur. So it's not impossible to be different from ethnicity or culture. It's just that, can you and your family accept these differences?

4. His lifestyle

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When you're still dating, you may not really know what your boyfriend is like. Because maybe meet only once a week and mostly just chat or video call. But, take advantage of social media to find out what kind of person he is. Because what is often posted on social media is a picture of his life.

For example, photos that are often posted are branded goods. That means he likes to buy these things. Can you adapt your lifestyle? Do not just be attracted because of the physical, but can not follow the lifestyle of the couple. Because if his lifestyle is like heaven and earth, it will make relationships difficult too.

5. His life vision

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The last and perhaps most often forgotten is the vision of a partner's life. You often forget to ask this since you were dating or dating. In fact, this vision of life is very important and can determine whether you can be side by side with him to the aisle or not.

For example, it turns out that his life vision is to get married at the age of 30 and have many children. Even though you want to get married soon but don't want to have children. This is of course the complete opposite. Finally, the relationship that has been built for a long time can run aground. Therefore, ask for his vision from the start.

Choosing a partner is not as easy as you think. Physical beauty will not forever cover his true identity. Therefore, do not just look at the physical or material in looking for a partner. The five things above can be your reference now.

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